Dear Editor:
Re: Sugar
Coated Relationships, January 31, 2013
I was
appalled to hear of a university professor here in Guelph pushing the notion that prostitution for students
is no big deal. She argues that giving sex for money has existed, “throughout
the history of human relationships.” But
stealing, lying, killing, raping, etc. have also been around for quite some
time, so the longevity argument for prostitution is not particularly
compelling.
Dr. Ruth Neustifter defends the idea of students
prostituting themselves for tuition because after all it’s “nothing new” and
not something “necessarily negative.” She
goes on to support the practice because after all, even though it is sex work,”that
doesn’t make it good or bad.” I find these comments absolutely appalling.
Way to go
professor—you have turned thousands of years of history on its head. Has it not been the norm for most of recorded
history to discourage girls from prostitution? Tragically in our endarkened age
respecting all things sexual we seem to be going in the other direction. But allow me to pose this simple question, “Would
you encourage your daughters to work as prostitutes to pay for tuition?” And if
not, how dare you encourage young women who are someone else’s daughters to
step into this degrading and enslaving lifestyle in order to earn a few
dollars.
As an
evangelical minister I recently heard from a former sex trade worker who spoke
at one of our meetings in Guelph. Her story is one of enslavement, victimization,
and brutality. Katrina (I share her name with her permission) was formerly a
sex-trade worker who escaped the snares of prostitution and now openly shares
her story to protect the vulnerable from getting enslaved and to help those who
want out. Her story can be accessed at (risingangels.ca)
. It is well worth reading.
I long for
the day when our universities might once again be places of light and wisdom.
If that’s too much to hope for—may they at least be a safe place for our
daughters.
Royal Hamel, Guelph
Royal Hamel, Guelph